Hiring Manager Fatigue: The Talent Crisis Everyone Ignores

Let’s name one of the major things in hiring that no one wants to admit out loud:

Hiring managers are tired.

I'm not talking about being “busy.” I'm not talking about being “behind.”

Tired. I am talking about hiring managers being tired!

Tired AF, if they're willing to admit it.

And when hiring fatigue sets in, it doesn’t just slow things down. It quietly erodes judgment, fairness, and trust. I’ve watched strong, well-intentioned leaders slip into auto-pilot interviews, disengaged panels, and the dangerous mindset of “good enough is good enough.”

That’s not a character flaw.

That’s a systems problem.

"The moment exhaustion outweighs evidence, hiring stops being a strategy and becomes a liability."

Fatigue Is Not a Failure. But Ignoring It Is.

Hiring manager fatigue happens when we stack interview after interview on top of full-time jobs, add urgency without clarity, and pretend decision quality won’t suffer. All of that and I haven't even covered the shortage on the team that likely needed to be filled forever ago that the hiring manager is now responsible for. If companies are going to continue to run way too lean for turn over not to impact them drastically, the problem is far more than the hiring manager.

And here we are in 2026 still battling the stigma that if someone is paid to be a hiring manager, they know what they are getting into and it wont impact hiring if they're working a few full-time roles until someone is not only hired, but trained and ramped up. After all, they're getting paid right? It shouldn't impact hiring to that extent.

Spoiler Alert: IT DOES

Fatigue invites bias into the room. And since we are keeping real, most organizations see fatigue like this, stack additional bias to their already biased processes. Even those that are well intentioned. Intention and impact are not the same. It shortens patience. It turns thoughtful hiring into checkbox exercises. And eventually, it leads to hires everyone feels uneasy about but no one has the energy to challenge.

"Ethical hiring cannot be sustained on exhaustion."

A Recruiter’s Job Is Not to Push. It’s to Protect.

I fundamentally reject the old-school recruiting model, despite being conditioned to follow it earlier in my career. Not long ago to be 100! That said, the world of work has changed. How we attract talent, how we approach recruiting has been a constant evolultion. Its made me ask myself, why haven't we seen the same evolution in hiring on the hiring manager and hiring team side? And now, here I stand on this hill. Adamantly.

Too often, recruiters are positioned as process police or schedule coordinators. That model is outdated and unsustainable. If your hiring managers and hiring teams are forcing recruiters into this role... you could have the wrong managers and teams participating in your organization's hiring decisions or it's most likely that your organization needs to invest in outside hiring manager training. With over a decade of experience as a hiring manager, recruiter and hiring manager trainer, I'd be delighted to help. Tag me in. Let me take this on so you can focus on EVERYTHING else.

The recruitingSHEro Solutions model is different.

I form alliances with hiring managers rooted in shared accountability, mutual respect, and long-term thinking. I teach hiring managers and recruiters how to not only support one another but thrive in their own hiring spaces. And how best to leverage each individual strength on the hiring team to best support hiring effeciently and for the betterment of the entire organization.

"I don’t push harder, I design smarter. Hire me to train your teams to do the same."

When a recruiter is truly allowed to own their desk, their job is not to nag hiring managers for feedback or cram more interviews onto their calendars. Their focus shoudl be on protecting decision quality for the business, the candidates, and the humans doing the hiring. This doesn't mean they won't send helpful reminders to my hiring teams or follow-ups.

Again, it means they are working in an alliance with hiring managers an hiring teams for the betterment of the entire organization.

Recruiters need to operate as allies, not a taskmasters. Period.

That means:

• Turn business chaos into decisive hires or don’t hire at all.

• Cut noise, kill pointless steps, and force focus on signal.

• Partner strategically. Never rubber-stamp dysfunction.

• Stop the process the moment fatigue replaces judgment.

"Sometimes the most strategic move is slowing down."

I said it!

I said that!

I know. I know...

Unpopular opinion to share depending on my audience, but the way I see it, and most importantly, the way I've experienced it, spotlights just how accurate that it.

Sometimes you have to slow down in the beginning to win the race in the end. If you've worked with me or followed my blog posts, listened to me speak publicly, or just been around me, it's likely you've heard me reference Going Back to the Basics more tha n once. And I still stand by that. Slowing down temporarily is doing exactly that. If your goal is to hire just to hire, fine. Just go ahead wing it and do it fast with abandon. If your goal is to hire the best sustainably, effeciently while increasing positive financial outcomes, slow down upfront and make sure to get it right from the get.

Sounds easy, right? For some of us it's really become so. However, it only becomes that way with training, alignment, trust and committment.

Everyone wants to hire fast, but let's all be real. If hiring fast means turnover rate(s) increase, you're just kidding yourself thinking you're fast. You're not hiring fast at all. You're hiring ineffectively and ultimately taking longer to hire the right person for the role(s). Not to mention, likely negatively impacting employee moral and experience.

Motivation Comes From Alignment, Not Pressure

Burned-out hiring managers don’t need pep talks. They need clarity.

They need to understand:

• Why this role truly matters right now (often times they know this from the get)

• What decisions only they can make and what they don’t need to weigh in on (sometimes this is a lesson in letting go and this is where building a trusting alliance makes for a smoother transition)

• How the recruiter is carrying the process so they can focus on evaluating, not logistics

When recruiters take on the invisible labor like preparation, synthesis, bias interruption, candidate communication, hiring managers can show up present and engaged instead of resentful and rushed.That’s not babysitting.That’s leadership enablement.

Sustainable Hiring Requires an Alliance

I don’t believe in heroic solo hiring. I believe in recruiter–hiring manager alliances built on communication, trust, honesty, and shared accountability.

Sustainable hiring looks like:

• Fewer interviews with more purpose

• Clear decision criteria before resumes ever hit inboxes

• Permission to redesign broken processes instead of repeating them

• Care for candidate experience and internal capacity

  
  

When that alliance is strong, hiring stops feeling like an endless drain and starts functioning like the strategic lever it’s meant to be.

The recruitingSHEro Line in the Sand

Here’s my line, and I hold it firmly:

• I will not trade ethics for urgency.

• I will not rush decisions made by exhausted teams.

• I will not let burnout dictate who gets hired or who gets overlooked.

My role, a recruiter's role, is to stand between chaos and clarity, between pressure and principle. Not to save the day with speed but to build hiring systems that LAST. Because it is not the cape that makes a hiring manager or recruiter strong.

The partnership does.

If you're looking to hire a recruiter who will train your recruiters on the ins and outs of building alliances with your hiring managers and teams, look no further.

I am that recruitingSHEro. Or maybe you need a full-time recruitingSHEro...

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